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on January 25, 2013 at 1:46 am
Both of you have good points. Immoral’s right that hotter girls have a lot of options, but the way Anonymous is running it he’s coming off as pretty high-value to the girl BECAUSE he’s not chasing her around. If he gets a # off a 9, and then doesn’t bother to put any effort into chasing her, that stands out as “wtf?? Does he have other girls as hot as me and doesn’t need to chase me around like these other guys??” because most of those rich 6-pack guys are hounding her to meet up.

If she throws out a feeler txt, he knows that’s the signal of “I want to hook up” so he just escalates on it. A lot of guys would over-game off that feeler txt and fuck it up or try to set up a Day 2 for the weekend etc., but he knows as soon as he gets that “hey whats up” that’s her saying “escalate this shit, I need cock” and escalates it in a fun smooth chill way to isolation, where things can escalate to sex.

Girls with boyfriends (new or long-term) will do the same thing. If I don’t hear from a girl for a few months and then she txts me a “hey” on a Friday night, I know that means “I’m horny and for whatever reason I’m not fucking my boyfriend, I need you to arrange a situation where we can have sex in a way that doesn’t trigger my ASD and make me feel slutty” so she trusts me to understand her signal and make it happen and I’ll bone her that night.

I just don’t primarily focus on this strategy, but I can completely see it working as a method if you’re really chill about getting laid and you have a lot of other stuff going on in your life (work, exercise, hobbies, etc.) where you can’t be bothered to chase pussy around.

BradP called this putting a girl on the “slow-track” and he added stuff like arranging ambiguous future plans with her or saying he’d call and then not call etc. which is just a more elaborate/pro-active version of your slow-cooker. But again, if you have more important shit to do than chase pussy which is what BradP’s version is, the slow-cooker of just waiting for them to initiate is just as good.

Thanks for sharing your method/mindset!